Decided the fate

 Character determines destiny. Life of the many contradictions and conflicts are rooted in our character. Personality directly affects a person's behavior and habits, and many other aspects, so we decided what to do, and how to do it, be the first to understand their own personality and career orientation. all those great things must have patience, reason and calm character. Therefore, the character is the leadership from the staff to the second passport. character and personality of career planning and temperament, also from the ability to restrict the formation and development role. character of the work attitude of the composition, often affect the career choices and achievements. selfish, arrogant, withdrawn, irritable, and indifferent to public welfare, people who neglect of social norms to not suitable for dealing with people engaged in occupations such as teachers, staff, public relations and diplomatic personnel, cadres and so on. The will of the people who lack resilience suitable for such work as surgeons, research scientists, data managers, and other requirements of endurance athletes great work; shaken, cowardly, undisciplined people, not suitable for selection as the ideological and political work, attendants, teachers and other professional. American psychologist and career guidance experts Holland after a dozen years of international research, the Occupational Personality theory (see Holland vocational aptitude test scale). He believed that man's character can be divided into six types, which are six types correspond with the six professional, if a person has a certain personality type, it is easy of interest in this type of career, which is also suitable for engaging in this occupation. Overall, these six characters are: one, the reality-based reality-type people like work and needs of the specific rules of basic skills work. such occupations generally refers to the handicraft industry and skilled technical work, often using hand tools or machine labor. such people often lack social skills. the reality type of person suitable for artisans, farmers, technicians, engineers, mechanics, fish and wildlife experts, turner, fitter, electrician, radio operator, train driver, mechanical draftsman, electrical division, machine repairman, long-distance bus drivers. Second, the research of people like intelligence research, abstract, analysis , the reasoning, independent tasks. such occupations mainly refers to scientific research and experimental work. such people often lack leadership skills. Third, the Artistic Artistic people like to achieve through the art of self-expression, imaginative, strong feelings, not submissive, creative, able to reflect on. Province. Artistic clerk who lack the ability to do interior decoration for experts, photographers, writers, music teachers, actors, journalists, composers, poets, writers, sculpture home, cartoonist. Fourth, social type of person-oriented society like social interaction, often at social networking sites, concerned about social issues, willing to serve on the interest in educational activities. such people often lack the mechanical ability. social type of person suitable in the guides, welfare workers, sociologists, counselors, social workers, school teachers, mental health workers, public health nurse. five, enterprise type of human enterprise is particularly inclined, adventurous activities, like leadership the role of a dominant, persuasion and verbal skills. such people often lack the scientific capacity. business type of person suitable as a salesman, wholesale staff, purchase workers, welfare workers, hotel manager, advertising, lawyers, politicians, retailers and so on. six, traditional type of people like the traditional system of structured tasks, practical, controlled, friendly, conservative features. such people often lack the artistic ability. the traditional type of person suitable for bookkeeper, bank teller, member cost estimates, checking, typists, office workers, statisticians, computer operators, secretaries, Court Reporters and so on. We often say that decided the fate, also affects the character of our profession (for example, work), and living habits (such as the daily diet), and the behavior (such as interpersonal communication), and other aspects, in fact, are virtually requires that the character of our profession we must correspond. Therefore, when the beginning of our career career, they should be combined with appropriate career planning, career refers to a person's life and career of all the behavior associated with the activities and related attitudes, values, aspirations, etc. through the process of continuity, is a human life career, job changes and work to achieve the ideal process. career planning is a career choice for the decision to subjective and objective factors were analyzed and measured to determine the individual's goals and select the job to achieve this goal. career planning to according to their own interests, characteristics, position yourself in a best position to play their strengths, their ability to choose the most suitable career. In this sense, the first professional career choice and the initial choice is extremely important and critical. in professional preparation stage. As the initial stage of his career, one of life's first turning point. in the selection process, we should clarify the following questions. 1. interest tendency of Western proverb: If you do not know what you want where to go, then usually you can not go anywhere. means self-evident, if a person does not know what they want, usually can not do anything good. Therefore, to establish a specific career goals and direction, a clear want to know what the future is a prerequisite for choice of profession. to do this is the correct understanding of the key and measure themselves, find their own interest. interest is the initial momentum of people engaged in the work itself can be an interesting gives a sense of satisfaction from his career will become fun. generation of football as Pele, as the pursuit of life, and finally become the world's attention the players. a strong professional interest is the tremendous success of a person driving force. 2. Personal capacity must be pointed out, we just to have to choose, after all, is not interested in a comprehensive and objective and do not represent their interest to have the ability to do some professional capacity of the essential features of personality are not only interested in can be determined do a good job. So, clearly what I could do, for doing what is necessary condition for choice of profession. because the advantages of different abilities and future occupation is to be distinguished, such as spatial ability for people engaged in machinery manufacturing, engineering design, construction, etc., corresponding to occupation; verbal ability are suitable for learning language and literature, writing and editing in professional and appropriate career, Einstein bias due to intuitive thinking, there is no choice but to select the mathematical a more intuitive theoretical physics requires the main direction as a career. believe that everyone has their own capacity strengths and personality traits, have their own strong points, weaknesses, and only in the full understanding of their context in order to properly choose a good suitable career direction. 3. wanted to do their own social needs in a clear, competent, professional field and career direction, it should also take into account the needs of society and to consider prospects for the future development of external factors, the success of this career choice is the basic guarantee. If you are interested in both their chosen career and has complied with the requirement, but the social needs little or no demand, so start planning their career is a failure. As social human needs, changes in the development of labor market uncertainty measure of social demand and the prospect is not a simple matter, and thus in the choice of profession, should tradeoff, and consider, rational to take a good first step in career planning. In occupational selection phase, it is necessary for their final professional position, which determine their career direction and find their favorite work. ambitious, would be nothing; timid and will eventually repent. this stage the core of career planning is to do all that self-evaluation and internal and external environmental analysis, based on the choice for their career - with their interests, abilities match, in line with their own career development ideal career. To achieve this goal, should note the following: re-examine, evaluate your career planning, develop a phased career development goals, one of their own career re-orientation, the establishment stage of career development objectives are necessary. correctly handle the ideal and the reality needs of professional and personal career goals and paid the contradiction between high-welfare professionals, in order to facilitate exercise their full play to their potential, are conducive to personal career development. started his career, should choose the same direction with their careers, to realizing their own recent or long-term career goals. that purely in pursuit of higher duties and more money for the purpose of selection, only short-term goals. so believe in their own relatively the strongest, most interest, while the occupational needs of society is to make their own growth and progress of the occupation, is also the most easily the success of their business. Therefore, we should be good at specific occupational positions from the start, as long as the ultimate career goals with their consistent, beneficial personal and professional goals, will determine their choice for their first professional jobs . Specifically, any person not to do things big and small of the points, so the end result of its completely different, because people do great things and did everything the targets set are closely related. is also a management graduate two people, a choice of high salary white-collar occupations organs, another option for the sales commission paid by the sales clerk job, in the ordinary view, the white-collar work is better than the salesman, but from the perspective of individual career development point of view, the result is not so simple. If the individual capacity of the authority for general characteristics of white-collar professional and personal career development goals in the pursuit of stability and comfort, choose the white-collar job organ is ideal; but for the pursuit of challenging work, interest and career ambition is to do business executives for those who choose to sit the beginning of the work of agencies, will only lose a great training opportunities, and the choice to do marketing, from the basics, though a little temporary difficulties, but in the long view, both exercise capacity and can gain valuable experience, it should be said that the long-term career goal is to achieve the best start. But in the face of adversity, we should be how to market themselves? If you have to accept less than the previous level work positions, do not think they will lose the opportunity for development. First of all to remain optimistic. maybe some things make you feel unhappy, depressed, but still maintain a positive, optimistic attitude. good luck to their own fight, and may wish to Sell yourself from the start. 1. to develop a focused plan. Research your industry and region which is very popular right now, and then find out from these sectors and regions you want to contact the company. If you want the survey to determine industries and regions , we must continue to actively networking, but there should be the focus. should be the network of relationships built in the real existence of opportunities. 2. to determine the appropriate marketing approach. to the examiner that they are familiar with the company and the industry to to impress. The best way is to ask some concise, focused questions, that you on the industry, the company itself made a detailed investigation. Finally, that: because of your past experience, you can help company development. to find a job may be that people had to endure the most difficult and trouble, one of the most frustrating process, but it may be the most exciting, exciting and makes your life experiences of a turnaround. You just give yourself period of time, do not lose confidence, and take well-formulated plan. The most important thing is, do not forget to each other to show their aggressive attitude, and perseverance. initiate the beginning of the choice of occupation, we should have a general objectives and planning, the first consideration is not a salary. but the interests and personal abilities, especially the companies can give you more room to fully tap the potential and talent out of your problems. In this case, the character and career of consistent and consistent with each other becomes more important. to his character and career choices together to compare and measure to see if they like the job, his character is suitable for this occupation, then will it be possible to making the most of their energy. character decide the fate of the so-called character, is the personnel in their choice of attitude and behavior shown on the psychological characteristics, such as rational, calm, tough, persistent, subtle, frank, etc. . in the same social background, the same family environment, the same life chances, the same IQ and other conditions, the struggle to the last, some successful, others failed. Why such a big gap and so different The result? fact, is what we call a certain extent determine the character of their different fate. However, we have missed the point, that is, in fact, has been the fate of half of all lies in our own hands, and our character but also can be changed. After all, character is not entirely natural, or acquired more shaped. The so-called hardship, Yu greatness. so we need to shape the character of the initiative to better control their own half in the hands destiny. masters of their own character, also to some extent have control of their destiny. Perhaps, in the history of the past, due to unequal opportunities, personality factors are not very prominent and obvious, but in today's This highly developed information age, the survival of the fittest in the competition regime, the more opportunities ultimately determined personality. In business, some people chose to work hard, gritty character, in reality they are a step by step Their goal in life; Some people choose lazy and complacent. Therefore, in such an era, we have no reason to shirk their responsibilities, can not complain, we should do is to better shape their own character, hold the fate of individual aids to navigation. Mr. Chen Zhihuai analysis: the character is not an ideal character, its essence indescribable, as if was the contact with them there great power. anger and majestic, fierce but not cruel, merciful without mercy. rebellious character to survive environment, resistance to naked, not convoluted, not gently. This man is either a hero over the environment, or be swallowed by the environment, as the protagonist of the tragedy. cowardly character often sympathetic, observant, sensitive to emotions. upright character of the people do not good circuitous, often floundered. As the saying goes, , work hesitation, no decision can only look for a job, not casuistry to decide, or will lose a chance. cunning character, free from any ethical constraints, gives the feeling is evil and false, but often not easy to success are always good name. prudent person who, often because they missed a chance personality, but his thoughtful thorough, careful, unavoidably in the whole heart, is his assistant, the only. read Mr. Chen Zhihuai analysis clearly and logically, I could not help but clap in approval. Honestly, the character of most of us are still very idealistic, and in reality will inevitably encounter many bumps. but we need patience in the deep face of adversity, opportunity, and also appears to show no hesitation when decisive; kindness, the kindly face; brave, such as Tigers down; critical moment, but cautious, such as hair; open at the beginning, but also vibrant. and sloppy, delicate and considerate. in the familiar characteristics of his personality and career choice After that, we must practice according to their objective, to continue to develop and exercise their own personality. According to psychological research, a person's character determines his temperament and emotional development. outgoing, emotional easily excited; introverted, emotional relatively stable. Therefore, we must strive to cultivate their good character, maintain emotional stability. In contrast, celebrities seem to look different, the reason why Bill Gates would become prominent figures in today's computer world, its unique character might have been doomed his unusual. Bill Gates is a typical workaholic, this quality from his high school to have performance thoroughly, whether it is studying the computer, or play poker, he is sleepless nights and tireless . Gates may not be the best of Harvard University students in math, but he's only in the computer no one can match. his mentor not only for his intelligence was surprised, more of his exuberant and full of energy and praise . During the pioneering days, in addition to business meetings, travel, Gates is in the company to work through the night, often until late at night. Sometimes, the Secretary would find that he had at the snoring loudly on the floor of the office. Gates visited a home were surprised to find that his room not only did not the TV, and even furniture are not necessary for life. Gates often at night or early morning e-mail to their subordinates, programmers often can be found at work early morning issued Gates e-mail, the content is written on their computer program. Gates often at night checking program written by programmers, and then make their own evaluation. The general situation is that he started working in the early morning to midnight and then return home. Every day he takes at least a few hours time to answer employee e-mail. The reason Bill Gates get so proud of the career and achievements, entirely by his extraordinary personality dictates, such as his typical workaholic, he interest and tireless study. We all know that successful career is a very difficult thing, you need a strong interest and tireless pursuit, or even have to pay per cent more than ordinary hard work several times, compared Select the destination is a also a headache about what kind of choice, what will bring the goals and results. so if the desire is to successfully explore their strengths catalyst, and choose the appropriate goal is open to explore the key strengths. But if you had a goal, it should be replaced another target, so as to re-determine their own strengths. In 1888, as a banker in the United States where Mr. Mo Dun vice presidential candidates , and sometimes impressively .1893 reputation, Mr. James Wilson in the summer to visit in Washington, where Morton. in conversation among the Morton Wilson asked how the accident by a fabric business into a banker, in any Morton said : Emerson wrote these words in the book thing that catches my eye: 'If a person has a kind of expertise needed by others, then no matter where he will not be buried.' This sentence left me a deep impression, suddenly made me change my original goal. After that sentence, I carefully thought about, that was the most urgent need of all walks of life is the banking sector. people's daily life, business transactions, everywhere need the money; the world and I do not know how many people for money, more to the mountain would Ling, had suffered a lot. So I determined to put aside cloth line, began to set up banks. in the safe and reliable conditions, I try to loan out. At first, I want to go to the lender, and later, many people are beginning to to find me. So, anything, as long as work at it, can not fail. unnecessary drain on their time and effort, but should go find another piece of heaven and earth. Of course, you re-established goals, change direction, be sure to go through careful consideration, in particular, can not be half-hearted, not only want this want To that, that we call eating a bowl, watching the pot. in the western United States, there is a well-known timber merchant, who had done four years of priests, but have not been able to become a competent and excellent priests. He After repeated consideration of their own strengths and weaknesses with re-understanding, then immediately change the target to begin commercial operations. He Yifan from the wind and eventually become a national famous timber merchants, wealthy. remember read about Lu Buxuan Chang reported in the meat, we can not help but be filled with emotion. surely many people will lament the top students of Beijing University Why is this so come down. It is said that Beijing University students into the school, speech made by Road Department, Peking University does not train writers to develop a Text workers. experience, mainly business failure, and ultimately fell to Chang meat. It is said that the newspaper was once a reporter to go, not meet, did not do two days to resign. In fact, you can really rely on is what you learn, you personality and attitude will determine your ultimate destiny. Therefore, you must strive to find opportunities to display their talents. But unfortunately, Lu Buxuan does not seem to have done in this area of deliberate efforts. If a person because of the wrong Professional but not full play to their talents, this is really is a pity thing. However, if because of personality factors affecting the career prospects and destiny of aids to navigation, I am afraid to not only pity so simple. Despite the saying goes, the fox, spots. But I still believe in the character of some of the details of a perfectly corrected for. In fact, when no one is more difficult for you, not with you trouble, often difficult for our own themselves, their trying to find fault with ourselves. they think is the dedication, everyone knows this attachment happens in many cases we use the wrong place to be. Generally speaking, people in determining whether to accept a new job, there will be more typical view of the following: One view is that the election work is mainly choose a suitable environment, which includes units of good or bad, the industry's hot and cold, etc.; The second view is that a job is to find a chance to play their own, these people generally do not fancy the immediate income, but pay more attention to long-term development; third view is very pragmatic, and that job is to choose a selection method to make money from this perspective, it seems to work itself is not as important as is whether it can in a certain period of time to fully reflect its economic benefits. Of course, we can hardly say that these types of ideas who is right, because from the work of people's world view and values of a great relationship. but we so choose also whether their character traits of this factor? Why do we always someone in the wrong bank? personnel expert analysis, for two main reasons: First, do not understand their own, and second, do not understand the occupational world. Only not only fully understand the self, and understands the professional world, and know ourselves and to the right career. of self-knowledge, the main character, interests and abilities in three areas. In recent years, foreign employers in the selection of a new idea when that character than the ability more important. so experts suggest, the choice of career should first consider their own character, outgoing personality is more suitable for extensive contacts with the outside world the occupation, such as lawyers, journalists, salesmen, etc.; introverted personalities are more suitable for a planned, stable and do not be too much interaction with people careers, such as research personnel, accounting, data administrators and so on. inadvertently seen such a story. an American reporter to interview a great master in his later years investment bank JP Morgan, asked: ; determine what are the conditions of your success? important than the financial capital, but the most important thing is character. and even risked their lives to the implementation of the national railway union, all because of his stubborn personality and dare to innovate, if you exclude this one, I am afraid there is no amount of capital that investment banks can not create a great pioneering undertaking. May 1998, Washington, DC University honored 350 students invited to Warren Buffett and Bill Gates, the world's wealthy Wolun speaking, when a student asked: Buffett said: . both in work and life are all decided the fate, character is like a cement pillar in the reinforced steel frame, and knowledge and learning is the pouring of concrete. initiate decided the fate. Similarly, a person's character traits are determined his interest, temperament, mood and behavior, and value orientation and other aspects. Of course, I also believe that personality is not static, as the environment changes, we will change with the concept. especially when we faces enormous pressure to survive when the character would no doubt reveal hidden side out. such as perseverance and patience, such as hard work and courage. at this time to play more than usual energy, even in virtually forcing your efforts to exercise as much as possible and polished their own personality and will. We are not afraid to fail since ancient times, the winner is not the meteoric rise of all smooth sailing. Most of them are also from the shadow of failure, relying on the spirit of unyielding , and finally became the winner. is known as finished secondary school, college to the UK, studying Electrical Engineering. upon graduation return to Singapore, into a company as a salesman. In order to make themselves familiar with all aspects of the situation and gain experience, he worked in areas such as shipping and oil company serving almost a year on average change a company. a good start, the road also see potential, this does not mean you can not need hard work reap the profits. He started early in the company, a large-scale salvage work contract, but at this time, a rival to his managers and staff hired to dig out. Liren this chapter is undoubtedly a heavy blow . But there is a chapter Liren literally indomitable spirit, he said: by staff on the business aspects of the harsh lessons of loyalty issues. rely on the spirit of this tough, Zhang Liren's career has been gradually coming to an end, in addition to general business Schmitt's some progress on the original, he has industrial town in the glycopyrrolate port regions have set up a ship factory. but not last, Zhang Liren was a new blow after another: the 1974 outbreak of a worldwide oil crisis, oil transportation and processing industry plummeted, Bhumibol company also will be special Depression. He ran edgy to touting the Middle East, the results have little effect, while several one year he sold only a small tug and a barge, marginally profitable. the face of difficulties, Zhang Liren still tell myself deep breath, , vessel to wait 3 months to rely on the terminal handling, great loss. tendering in the construction of new terminals, Zhang Liren rely on new technology, high efficiency, low cost condition, easily prevailed over all the competitors. Chapter Liren's success stories to tell people the courage to face failure, good resolving contradictions, no into a disadvantage. Indeed, the difficulty is an obstacle faced by life, but it is also the strong enemy, and only in perseverance honed in order to keep out competitors. There are many people, because life is not always difficult to fight with the opportunity, and no adequate We can exercise from the a test of our mentality. Some people are not desperate, you will not find our own potential strength. there have been failures is not terrible, because failure is sufficient to arouse a person's potential to succeed him, and became disappointed that he will become power of hope. Some environment is not smooth, the marginalization of young people everywhere, often solid, and those who successfully childhood environment, but can not withstand the wind and waves instead. God as a person when a door closed, often At the same time open a window for him. The so-called hardship, Yu greatness. failure, poverty, misery, seems to be a person's physical and mental exercise, making success even more solid determination. Poverty can motivate people worked hard. Not long ago a newspaper on the board of such a thing: a very poor family girl sponsored by Project Hope, hard work to finish high school with honors and was admitted by a university in Australia, the school learned about her situation, all of her relief fees and scholarships for her, but because of poor ticket to take the money does not go out of Australia, almost lost the chance to go to school, and later, with funding from the many well-intentioned people only dream round her school. In the face of poverty, The girl did not despair, low self-esteem, no complaining, complaining society, but I believe the community, I believe that human's own truth, to the community for help sent the letter, so she got the funding. can be seen, the poor man's will and to hone perseverance. someone asked a famous artist, a youth to study painting with him in the future can become a famous painter. that the artist replied: their fate is poor. Once in a poor position to think they meant to poverty, which is obviously wrong. While many people were poor, but because he has confidence and courageous disposition, was finally able to overcome poverty. a lot of things you can change, as long as you do not down by poverty, you may get wealth. in the present society, poverty is not terrible, just to maintain normal; dynamic, hard work, learn skills, highly motivated, gain experience, to seize the opportunity to possible to obtain wealth. The key to see if you can do: (1) Be confident, accept the fact of poverty, think of ways to change the poor. (2) to hard, train hard skills, the knowledge is the slogan of money into power of their actions. must have goals, and the actual link to, to have the power of action and courage. (3) love life, create wealth, select a road to riches. the road is a lot of wealth, and only one way is for your own, you have to choose their own path. (4), poor knowledge and contentment. understand that the money will come and, in a proper way, with the proper way. may have received poor people in the face of wealth, easy to commit corruption . So, contentment is the correct attitude in the face of wealth. dignitaries poor go rather short, is the conduct of the party interested. Poverty is not terrible, terrible ...